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Depression

 Session  Depression  My mother used to make beans very fondly, but before cooking, she cleaned them and threw the dirty and damaged beans in the back yard, cooking only the good ones.  But when it rains  These dirty and bad seeds would become seeds and sprout and the yard would be filled with greenery and it was a beautiful feeling.  How interesting it is that the same person who would have thrown them away knowingly, would be happy to see them and take good advantage of them after taking care of them.  Now listen to me  Don't cry when you're left alone in the yard  Don't cry even when you are rejected  Do not cry even when they are proving you inferior   Don't think of it as a burden, let someone realize that it is a compensation for past mistakes, don't panic, rain will come, there is a reward for those who are patient, and this is the promise of Allah, remember that those who denied you call you.  Allah Almighty loves His servants very much, He will have mercy,

Family is Good gift

Doctor, I am in a lot of pain, suffering from mental agony, I have my own house, I have a blue passport, I can go wherever I want, I have a husband, I have children, everything is God's gift.  I don't understand how to get out of mental anguish, I have been treated a lot, when a friend told me about you, I thought and talked.  Today was our 4th session, from childhood to youth and from university to marriage and children we talked about everything, each session had two questions.  #What could be the cause of my golden agony?  #Why don't you prescribe any medicine?  Today was the day, it was the day to answer all the questions, today was the day to reveal the secrets, today was the day to bring out the person who was hidden behind countless curtains, today was the day to speak the real and true things.  .  Because in today's session I had to ask written questions and read and "observe" his eyes, face, words and "body language".  The question was asked

Good relationship

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"If you have relationships, see them from your own eyes" A young girl who has been married for a year.  The doctor said, two months ago everything was going well, there was no problem in the house, now every day some issue arises. Problems have also started with the husband, issues with the mother-in-law and Nand have also started. Before there was no talk of cooking or even washing the dishes, all the affairs were running smoothly and we were all very happy. The girl was very worried, she kept telling her problems, for about forty minutes she talked about her problems.  I asked a few questions but didn't see any problem.  Would you tell me that in the last three to four months, have you made a friend, joined a group or page, watched a series or a drama that you liked or liked, or something new has come into your life? The girl thought for some time and mentioned a few groups and mentioned an English series so we checked them but that too didn't get anything so I note

Behaviour session

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session.. A few lines of this session for those who read novels, for those who love literature. She is the girl who is the rasia of the drains, the madman of the stories, the madai of the poetry. She herself became a puzzle, dressed in black clothes and sat in front of me. There are many problems with the children of our nation, parents, teachers and those who train them for many periods. It has not been "updated" for centuries. They are just sitting as beggars of the line. She told me that I have read many novels, she used to speak and it was clear that she has a very good command of Urdu. She was depressed. She was in a lot of trouble. We solved his problem, but I am not allowed to write it, but he said one thing while going, which I would like to share. "Look, girl, you have read the children's literature, now start reading the wise, wise and wise ones so that you don't have to suffer much on the road of life. When a person reads a book, he

How strange people after marry

session.. How strange people are that they marry daughters-in-law with a lot of love and desire and they also want a girl from a big house to be our daughter-in-law, be educated and work and make us "round" bread. Even though we are literate, we "use such language that even ignorant people are ashamed." We say such things that even market people hide their faces in shame. A person abuses another's family when a person knows that my family is like that because the family teaches you to abuse, no one from outside teaches you.

Young man session

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session.. There was a session of a beautiful young man, this session is also present in our society "nasty diseases" reflects the The young man told me that I started talking to a girl on social media, she is married and has two children, her husband is out of the country for work. They also have fights, she keeps telling me, she is in a lot of pain and often cries so I feel very bad and I can't break this girl's heart. Now the problem is that my engagement is already fixed, how to talk to my family so that they agree, I am very worried about this problem. What do you want me to do? Look my friend, in the society we are a part of there are no two opinions on this issue, marry your fiancee because she is your childhood sweetheart. You will break not one but many hearts by divorcing that married girl because your fiancee is also your uncle and cousin and your family arranged the engagement. had to tell that I don't want to do it here. You remembere

premarriagecounseling

#premarriagecounseling From pre-marriage counselling. Those who make hundreds of crores, thousands of billions before the relationship is formed, do they damage the relationships a lot later. Always keeping eyes on the road, always sitting on the head, always talking sweetly, always in touch. Emotions are at the "extreme". When they are surrounded by emotions, even talking for a few minutes becomes a burden to them, sweet words turn into taunts and bitter words, those who sit on the head beat them on the ground and those who lay eyes on the roads put their eyes on their foreheads. are You should take your time, don't rush, listen, understand and evaluate things with a filter. Then tell them in good time and ask how hundred came to mean crores and how did thousand come to mean billions? Where did you get so sweet that everything drips with sweetness and the eyes are wide open?