Good relationship

"If you have relationships, see them from your own eyes"

A young girl who has been married for a year.

 The doctor said, two months ago everything was going well, there was no problem in the house, now every day some issue arises.

Problems have also started with the husband, issues with the mother-in-law and Nand have also started.

Before there was no talk of cooking or even washing the dishes, all the affairs were running smoothly and we were all very happy.

The girl was very worried, she kept telling her problems, for about forty minutes she talked about her problems.

 I asked a few questions but didn't see any problem.

 Would you tell me that in the last three to four months, have you made a friend, joined a group or page, watched a series or a drama that you liked or liked, or something new has come into your life?

The girl thought for some time and mentioned a few groups and mentioned an English series so we checked them but that too didn't get anything so I noted a few things that if you keep writing till the next session we will check them.  .

 At the end of the session, the girl said, "I used to get very bored before, but two months ago, one of my female relatives bought a house near our house, so now I have to visit her a lot, and spend good time with her."  .

 As soon as I heard this, I realized that the problem lies here.

 Tell me how long you have been friends with that lady.

 Friendship is quite old.

 How was your meeting with him after the wedding?

 Sir, there was nothing special.

 How long do you meet each day?

 Sir, don't ask anything, we will meet when there is free time.

 Well, tell me, whose house has more meetings and spends more time?

 They spend more time at home.

 What job does her husband do and is he at home during the meeting?

 He is a manager in a company and he comes home only in the evening but does not meet that much while he is there.

 When the history of that woman was taken, my thought was not invalid that the problem lies here.

 I have no right to talk and share about that lady.

 "See, you are unconsciously the "Empress" of that woman, keep following what she does, you unconsciously adopt what she says and pretty much start speaking her language.  "

 "A man's personality is the sum of the five people he meets, interacts with, thinks about and follows every day."

 You should keep a little distance from them, definitely go to meet them, but in the presence of a third person, think about what they have done in the past and the behavior they have done with their in-laws with a cool mind and learn from them.  The session ended.

 When your relationship is going well, you are very happy, then do not destroy the peace of your home by following someone's advice.  Adopt.”