cutting down the crop of emotions

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"I'll tell you that a new phone can be bought, a new watch can be purchased, new clothes can be found in the market, broken utensils can be replaced with new ones, if a book is torn, it can be found in the market, if food is spoiled, new food can be cooked, TVs, laptops, everything can be bought as desired, everything in the world can be found in the market.


I paused, took a deep breath, and looked at the short-tempered girl who was sitting in front of me with a diary, wearing a light yellow modern fancy shirt and black tights, without a dupatta... I started saying, "But... but you can't buy those moments, emotions, feelings, and tears that flow from the eyes of your loved ones when you break something, or shout at them in anger, hurting them..."


"By cutting down the crop of emotions with your sharp words and throwing it into the scorching heat of anger, you can never be happy. Buy things, but don't trample on emotions and feelings. This is your medicine." I softened my tone and...

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